If I’d written this article three years ago I probably would have said it’s mostly safe for women to travel alone in India, as long as some precautions were taken. It’s regrettable to report that in more recent times, there’s been a significant rise in sexual assaults on women, with several reported cases involving foreign women in tourist areas. I still feel it’s possible for women to travel alone in India, but it goes without saying that greater care should be taken to avoid any troubles on your way. Please follow the guidelines set out on this page to ensure safe and happy travels when visiting India…
1) DRESS MODESTLY
This is the obvious one to start with and it especially applies when moving about in public places. I never forget traveling in Kerala with my cousin several years ago. We were getting ready to go to a music festival and she decided to wear a short mini skirt and crop top. I clearly remember warning her before we left the hotel to change into something less skimpy, especially because she was a British Asian girl and local guys were not used to seeing Asian girls dressed in such a way. She ignored my advice and within minutes of arriving a guy in the crowd had groped her and ran off! The best thing for women travellers to wear in India are loose and baggy garments that cover both legs and arms. It’s always advisable to dress like the local ladies and get a salwar kameez if you can.
2) Blondies…consider going brunette
Most foreigners travelling in India will ignite a certain curiosity in the local people and it seems to be that blonde-haired girls get even more unwanted attention, especially from the local lads. While this adoration might be endearing at first, I can assure you that it will become annoying at times, particularly when you just want to be lost in the crowd and left alone. One piece of advice worth considering (if you’re young, blonde and beautiful) is to dye your hair a darker shade while traveling in India. Another tip is to get a head scarf (dupatta) and cover your head when moving around town and in public places.
3) DEALING WITH DROOLING MEN
It’s not uncommon for women (particularly foreign women) to be on the receiving end of whistling, name calling and relentless staring when moving around town. Or worst still accidental contact and groping in crowded areas. Although annoying, this is something that can be shrugged off pretty easily if you just ignore the perportators and move on. If someone is being particularly persistent then the next best thing to do is to tell him directly to stop looking at you, or better still, say it loud enough that another passer by overhears and hopefully lends a helping hand. Indian people are usually very good at joining forces in public to rebuke any riff-raff, so use this tactic in your favour if necessary and never hesitate to seek a helping hand from strangers.
4) TAKING TAXIS
If possible then avoid travelling alone in taxis/rickshaws, especially at night. If you have to use a taxi then get one from a hotel taxi rank, rather than hailing some stranger on the street. If you find yourself having to take a taxi alone then a good tip (if you have a smart phone) is to take a selfie or photo of you and the taxi driver together, prior to starting your journey. Tell the driver that your father or husband wants you to send them this picture on WhatsApp, so they can see who’s responsible for driving you home! This white lie might seem over precautious, but any decent taxi driver will respect your sentiment to stay safe. Another great advantage is that Uber and India’s own version Ola are now widely available throughout the country. This provides an extra level of security for taxi travel, as you can usually check and leave reviews.
5) USING PUBLIC TRANSPORT
Many trains and buses now offer separate seating and ticket booths for women travellers, so be sure to take advantage of these when available. If you’re traveling long distance on a train then make sure you sit next to a family if possible. In most cases your tickets will be allocated beforehand, so if you board the train and realise there’s a bunch of guys sitting in your cabin, you should just move along the carriage until you find another cabin with other female travellers and sit here. When the ticket inspector (TT) comes along, simply explain the situation and he should be able to re-seat you somewhere else. If you’re travelling alone on public transport and see other foreign travellers on board, then it’s also a good idea to sit next to them if you can. This way you’ll look like you’re part of a group and less likely to stand out as being alone.
6) AVOID BEING ALONE
I’m someone who truly values my own personal space, so it’s regrettable for me to advise women travelling in India to avoid being alone and venturing into any remote or isolated areas. Do not go for long unaccompanied walks on the beach and definitely don’t move around by yourself at night. If possible then always travel in groups. If you’re a backpacker, then often you will meet like-minded travellers at budget guesthouses along the way, so partner or group up with these people and continue or plan your onward journey together.
7) USING TOILETS
One big concern for women travellers is the lack of clean and hygienic public toilets available in India. This is not so much of an issue for guys (who can pretty much go anywhere!) but women really have to consider the toilet issue, especially when my advice in a previous section is to stay well hydrated and consume two litres of water per day! If you’re planning a trip which involves lots of travelling – long road trips and sleeper trains – then you might want to consider investing in a sheewee, which is basically a portable device that allows women to urinate comfortably when they don’t want to sit on an unsanitary public toilet. It might seem a bit gross (or even make you laugh a bit) but when you consider the alternatives, it actually makes a lot of sense investing in one of these gadgets. I’ve met several women traveller’s in India who have described their sheewee as the most important piece of travel kit for India! Another tip (particularly in the bigger cities) is to sneak into a five star hotel and use their clean public toilets in the lobby. Most of the big shopping malls in the main cities also have a selection of upmarket restaurants on the top floor, which usually means access to a half decent washroom.
8) STAY WITH AN INDIAN FAMILY IN A HOMESTAY
There are plenty of lovely people working in the hospitality sector, but from my own experience, some of the seediest people you’ll meet in India are the men who run and work at a large number of budget hotels and guesthouses! I’ve had girl friends who’ve travelled alone in India tell me that on more than one occasion they would hear knocking on their doors late at night, which they’ve assumed to be the night staff playing dumb tricks. If this ever happens to you then please try to ignore them and never open the door, especially if you’re alone. If the knocking persists then pick up the phone and report it to the manager downstairs at reception. Another suggestion to avoid such situations altogether is to consider staying in a home-stay rather than a hotel. The Indian government is big on promoting home-stays at the moment and it can be a great way to meet local people, sample the local cuisine and really get under the skin of the true Indian lifestyle. There are some really good home-stays out there with prices and facilities to suit all budgets and styles. The best resource for searching is this website…